All about...relationships... and being in it

Relationship is all about being able to complement each other. Doubtlessly, it would invite diverse opinions. But here i am with my own.

We say- love is blind, then how do we distinctly point out each others mistakes? Is love not blind then? Pretty tough to come out with an answer. Isnt it? Love comes with trust. The inverse is rarely true. To trust someone is a decision, maintaining it is the others choice. But that doesnt mean we should not trust someone just by being afraid that he would break it. Its like, not living today for the fear of dieing tomorrow. Such persons are refered to as pessimist by dictionery. Being human, if we dont trust human, then whom should we trust? Animals? We shouldnt forget that even a newborn trusts a woman before coming to know that she is his mother.

In a relationship, when partners live togather for pleasure, they are in love. But when being togather becomes a duty, its pressure. All runs smooth as long as partners complete each other but when each starts advocating ownself, it stops working out.

evrything runs fine as long as family tension and office affairs limit to house and office respectively. Similarily, life sinks to hell when family starts to interfere with relationship. Evrything appears peaceful till they limit to their respective spaces.

Doubt is a human nuclear weapon which aborts trust. Its a virus that corrupts faith. It brings down every perfect relationships. So, to walk longer, it needs to be guarded entry.

to get into a relationship brings with it a lot of responsibility. It also comes with the probability of mistakes. But mistakes shouldnt gain priority over love. Mistakes once committed can be rectified but love once lost cant be regained.

To maintain a healthy relationship, we need to garnish it with lots of love and trust. We must forget and forgive mistakes. We must give it its own existence and own space devoid of family, work and environment. We must make it a part of ourselves. When a part of the body gets injured, we dont cut it off, we rather cure it. Let relationship be taken the same way.

So come, fall in love, because it will enhance the passion to live. Taste the honey of love before it tests you. Because, its never late to fall in love.